Its a lot easier to blame the whole world then to look at yourself and acknowledge your actions and that maybe, just maybe, guilt is a product, which shouldn’t be sold or given to anyone else.
Its very, and I speak from experience and from understanding that I still have an enormous path ahead of me, hard to accept your faults, and it’s even harder to go and change the way you behave to try and improve on those faults. I think a big part of starting to really TRY to change, ( and I say try because it’s not in anyway guaranteed that you’ll achieve change ), is stopping with the attitude of given away blame as if it is a b-day gift.
No pain, no gain. And it doesn’t mean that you’ll have to live a life of pain or hardship so that you can grow into somebody better, just means that somethings in life, just do not come without struggle.
Admit your faults, to yourself, no need to make a public announcement of it, try to do different next time and stop with the bull…
